Phase 0: Foreplay
Start at your lips and kiss your way down her body – She’ll know what’s coming and the anticipation will get her motor running. Pay extra attention to her breasts, stomach, and thighs. Use your hands to caress her softly. If she's still wearing underwear, breath warm air softly on her genital area. Kiss or lick her through the underwear a few times before removing them. Kiss and nibble on her stomach and inner thighs. Tease her mercilessly until she’s bucking her hips towards you. [7]
Lightly run your fingers over her panties. I mean super light. The less friction at this point the better. Run your finger along the edge on the panty, over the panty, sometimes just a bit under the panty. Do this VERY FUCKING slowly. [...] When she pushes up onto your hand then you know it's time to move to the next step […] Now, you want to get in between her legs, panties still firmly in place, and start using your tongue like you used your finger. Make sure your tongue has a decent amount of saliva and start to tease with your tongue around the edges of her panties, on top, and and sometimes(just sometimes) under the edges. Occasionally lick her slit starting from the bottom moving to the top using your flat slobbery tongue with a rhythm akin to a dog lapping water in slo-mo. When you have sufficiently drenched her panties(or she has drenched it herself) you can move on to the next step. Remove those goddamn panties [1]
I like to start off kind of slowly...just look into her eyes and smile at her...tell her she's beautiful, brush her hair out of her face...then start lightly tracing her body with my fingertips very lightly...this makes her senses start to tingle...then I kiss her...lips and kissing can be a huge turn on for women and it's a good indicator of how turned on she is (how hard and desperate she's kissing you)...as we're making out I get on top of her and straddle her but am very careful not to touch her...but get as close as I can so she can feel my presence...I start kissing/nibbling down her neck as my hands start to explore her entire body...my finger tips lightly travel up her sides and i start tracing her boobs...now this tip drives me wild...I circle her nipples with my fingertips...but DO NOT touch the nipples yet...makes a girl crave it so badly...nipples will actually get really hard because the woman is just thinking about how it will feel when you finally touch her nipples...then she starts to crave it...finally I give in and pinch her nipples...girls typically moan with pleasure during this one...my mouth finally makes its way down to her chest and i kiss her boobs and suck on her nipples, tease them with my tongue...while doing this my hand moves down...i trace my finger along the top of her panties...very lightly...I run my finger up the panty lines on her inner thigh...eventually i start kissing and nibbling (a light nibble really switches up the sensation and makes me want it even more badly) down her stomach...I slowly lick up her panties over the lips...I drag my tongue up her inner thigh...then I finally take her panties off...[2]
start out by simply very lightly running your hand over the vulva. Don't touch her clit yet. Just lightly brush over it while kissing her and touching her breasts. This drives her wild… Is she on the verge of begging for it? If she is, you're ready to go down on her. [3]
Phase 1: Teasing
go extremely slow, hover between my legs so i can feel you breathing and maybe you kiss my thighs. very occasionally you flick your tongue over my vulva and i will yelp. i myself would like it if at first you left my clit alone -- she's too sensitive for immediate onslaught. play around for a while. this part feels crazy amazing; if i'm aroused i'm already feeling a throbbing inside me but every time you suddenly lick me it's like all that interior feeling leaps to the surface and is crystalized in a bolt of warm juicy lightning. the best part of this early stage is that i don't know what's going to happen next. you should try and surprise me. take a long pause, give me one lick, pause again, then three short licks in succession. i am all tensed up at this point, completely focused on the next moment your tongue will make contact, and feeling the desire to spread my thighs far apart to make room for all the need you are building up in me. [4]
she should be wanting it pretty badly right now..I put my mouth in between her legs and VERY LIGHTLY and slowly drag my tongue from the bottom of her lips to the top...she should be loving this...at this point i move my head back up to hers...kind of to make her be like "wtf aren't you fucking me right now?" I kiss her at this point to see how desperate she kisses...for me personally when i'm SUPER turned on and need something inside of me, I start using tongue...while kissing her, I slide a finger inside of her and find her g-spot (men, the g-spot is roughly two inches inside of the vagina...it's a little rough patch)...a sort of in and out/up and down stimulation on the g-spot goes a LONG way! after teasing the g-spot for a few seconds I pull my finger out and tease her clit very slowly and lightly...at this point she should be just about at the point of pushing your head down there...[3]
Start at the very base of her vulva and work your way up slowly with a long, wet, lingering lick. After all the teasing, this brazen move will send shivers down her spine. Pause just short of her clitoral head then continue upward, barely brushing it with your tongue. No real clitoral contact yet! Finish by flattening your tongue and allowing it to gently rest on the top of her vulva for about 4-5 seconds. Remove it completely - and smile to yourself as she frowns/squirms at the shock of losing the touch of your soft, warm tongue. Repeat the above process (although maybe not quite so dramatically) for a few minutes. Take your time and savor each lick, but try to get a rhythm going. Rest your tongue on the top of her vulva (including the clitoral head), then (cruelly) remove it temporarily. The slow licks / flat tongue followed by a complete breaking of contact will build the necessary sexual tension to send her climbing toward orgasm. Frustrate her clitoris even more by only concentrating your licks on her inner labia and vaginal opening. Point your tongue slightly, and use it to lick from the bottom of her vulva towards her clitoral head…but stop before you get there. Tease her like this for a minute or so, then move on. [7]
Sign the phase is ending: don’t do this too long / arching the pelvis toward you [4]
Phase 2: Build-up
Slowly, very fucking slowly (did I mention slowly) press your flat saliva drenched tongue starting from the base of her vagina and run it up ( slowly motherfucker!) to the top of her pubic mound. The key here is saliva and slow constant friction. And here's the other key: Rhythm. […] Start out achingly slow and build from there. […] the key is to remember to start out slowly with whatever technique you use and build up speed while maintaining a constant rhythm. [1]
try long slow licking motions that start at my vaginal opening and go all the way up to, but don't QUITE make contact with, my clit. then vary the length of the lick, the speed, and the shape of your tongue -- try pointy, then big and wide. in this stage my body relaxes; it's sort of like getting the most hyperbolically good massage of your life, and you can't believe how awesome it feels so you just sort of melt into it. then you start working my clit and this is where i go bonkers. try licking up to it -- stroke your tongue repeatedly from about half an inch below it right up onto it. my vaginal walls are tensing like crazy at this point, and i am rotating my pelvis towards you because i can barely stand it but i need more. i don't even have the words for this part -- it feels absurdly wet and sparkly, though the sensation is still happening on the surface at this point. [4]
just start by making your tongue really soft and wide, flatten it out on the pussy, and then proceed with slow and steady laps, like you're enjoying the best ice cream cone ever. Do that really slowly, like sloooooooowwwwww, while wrapping your arms around the girl's thighs. Wait for her to start squirming around, and then kill that fucking clit like it's a spider in the bathtub. [6]
Do your first lick super slow. It’s good to groan and moan too. It shows you’re digging it while sending microscopic audiophonic vibrations right up her snapper. Start just above the anus and take it all the way to the fur. Do about a dozen of these “St. Bernard licks” before moving on (take it really slow, like four seconds per lick). This is a good time to figure out what kind of clit she has. If it’s real sensitive, she’ll probably convulse as you pass over it and that means you’re in for an easy ride. If there’s no reaction when you graze over her clit, she probably has one of those nerveless little pea clits and you’re in for a thirty-minute session of tongue tendinitis. [6]
If you're going to slide a finger or two in, press upwards, towards her stomach, and feel for a rough spot that's approximately behind the clit. this is the G-sopt / a general come-hinter motion works well (start slow and don't overdo it; you don't want her to be over-stimulated or it'll be 'too much'. gotta find the sweet spot). [1 comment]
Sign the phase is ending:
Phase 3: Orgasm
coming strongly involves my pelvic muscles, so you'll notice where i'm at because you'll feel me contracting under you. i am probably also shifting my legs around at this point. now, you can keep me on the verge for a long long time -- but whatever you do, don't return to the teasing stage at this point. focus on the groove as a path to my clit. when you do something in particular that increases that "i am going to come" sensation in me, that's when i'm most likely to exclaim "YES" or "FUCK" or "JESUS" or just "WHARBARBALFGBLE." keep doing that thing. there will come a point where everything in my body knows that we are going to come IMMEDIATELY if the right sensations keep happening. for me, this is the only time when you should focus entirely on my clit. you will know because i am clenching everything in my body. everything you do on the surface is sending warm, contracting depth charges of pleasure into my pelvis. i lose my ability to feel really subtle sensations at this point: i want you to pick a repetitive motion and DIG IN. you might have to try a few different ones but it will work. [4]
Sign the phase is ending: Muscles Contracting near her vaginal hole [1]
When you feel your girl pivoting towards you and clenching her pelvis, telling you "right fucking there, you sexy sonofabitch!", make kissy lips and suck that clit like it is her nipple. This will do a couple things: it will bring the entire clit into your mouth and hold it there in place giving your tongue more dexterity; and two, you are pulling extra blood into the very end of her clit, making it more sensitive. Don't suck too hard! It can hurt her or even numb that beautiful bulb. Just enough suction to keep it in place so that you can flick the end of your tongue against her sweet spot. This will also save you some jaw pain by isolating the movement of your mouth, particularly your jaw. At this point, she's heading over the cliff. She starts thrashing. Wrap your arms around her legs and hold on to her thighs like you're wrestling bull horns by pushing her down. Or my personal favorite, picking her up slightly, because the only direction she can go when you pull her up is pushing her pelvis further up into your mouth because she'll be arching her back. Pulling her up makes her feel you are completely in control and loads of women I've been with LOVE this. But please be respectful. It gets tricky because some women will start pushing your face away from their pelvis. In my experience, this is because the ecstasy is almost too much, so I'll cut it off early and usually the response is either with her eyes or actually yelling "WHERE THE FUCK DO YOU THINK YOU ARE GOING!?!" Pushing my face away seems to be an automatic response, but also an affectionate one - I'll sometimes feel them pushing my head away while also pulling my hair at towards them at the same time. I'll usually hold out until she can finally vocalize that she would like me to stop. Usually by the time she can muster her last strengths from Mother Gaia, I have already taken her to places she's never been. [5]
I focus my mouth on the clitoris, the hooded protrusion of skin immediately above the vaginal opening. What I do with my tongue is apply broad pressure with the middle and work my way up and down, slowly pushing that hood back and eventually applying direct pressure onto the clit as her excitement grows. While doing this, I usually have my left hand directly above her vagina on her stomach and I push gently downward and toward my face. My right hand (or your dominant hand if your a lefty, reverse this) will have the two middle fingers inside of her. Do this with your hand: take your index and pinky fingers and curl them in toward your palm, insert your middle and ring fingers and curl them upward towards your other hand that is on her stomach. Feel around for a slightly tougher spot of skin, or more ribbed sort of feeling area. This is her g-spot. The pinky and index fingers can now be relaxed, and pointed slightly toward one another at the tips. This will give more surface area to be stimulated by the motion of your other two fingers inside of her as well as allow your tongue more area to explore and stimulate. Now begin rocking your two middle fingers back in forth in rhythm with your tongue on her clit. Your two outside fingers will also be giving gentle pressure to the sides of her labia, and ultimately, putting small pressure on the sides of her clitoris. Doing this for about three-four minutes would bring most of the girls I have been with to a pretty powerful initial orgasm. Relax some, and gently caress, feel them out... then do it again. Rinse (hehe) and repeat until she (or your forearm) can no longer take it. Their orgasms from this seem to get more and more powerful the longer you go. Often times, with enough upward pressure on the g-spot, this will also result in squirting. This technique has served me very, very well. I plan on continuing to use it, as it seems to apply direct forward and side pressure to the clit, labial stimulation by the fingers, and g-spot pressure from inside against the hand on her stomach to hopefully stimulate more of those nerves. That outside hand can also be used to pull a leg over your shoulder, reach up to pull on hair, caress the neck, or cup some of that sweet ass upward against your face when she begins writhing about. [8]
Complete:
First , you need to master three different simple moves : 1 - The most basic is of course, up and down, right to left. This is what makes the magic happen. Not much to say about this, that's what we all instinctively do. 2 - Circles. This move is very useful for a particular reason : I noticed that going straight to the clit can be kinda painfull at first for the girl, it's too sensitive sometimes and you need to warm it up. so you'll need the circle move, that allows you to stimulate around the clitoris. Imagine that it's like when a girl gently slide her hand up and down your cock before blowing you, it does not feel particulary awesome, but it get's you hard and waiting for the real deal. 3 - Suck. Yes, suck. The sucking adds variety to what is happening to her clit, I guess it drives blood into it, and such things... but this move is important because it allows you to rest your tongue, it gives you this 1 or 2 seconds break you need, plus she'll want you to start licking again, while still feeling stuff. … So you gently but firmly explore her pussy with your tongue, the inner lips are not very sensitive, nor is the entry to the vagina, but still make her feel your tongue there and there, mess around. Then, focus more (but not only) on the more interesting parts : circle the clit and go up and down in this kinda flat area beetween the clit and the vag. You can start to lick the clit too, but don't rush things up, be gentle and soft. So this was the two parts of the warm up. She should start to enjoy herself, moan a little etc... The thing is, you really don't know if she's already warmed up enough, and want you to really get started, or if she wants you to keep this pace for a little more time. Well, my friend, you have to guess this by how she reacts. Let's say she's ready for you to really give her pleasure. Now you can lick the clit up and down, but not too fast ! Lick the whole area between her vag and the top of her clit, so each stroke starts and end on a part not too sensitive but always stimulate her clit. Accelerate your pace, but keep doing other stuff. Try things. Stimulates the upper part of the clit, which is under some kind of "hood" with a left and right movement, suck on that clit, stick your tongue in her vag... Keep accelerating your pace slowly as her pleasure builds up, apply more pressure etc... At some point you'll realize it's probably a matter of really short minutes, even maybe seconds before she comes, so then and only then start to really go nuts on the clit, do wide, strong movements and short rapid licks, suck on it strongly when your tongue starts to hurt... when she starts to cum, and you'll notice, just focus on that clit for a final rush, but at the end, when she's at the very climax, just suck on it strongly, and then release it. It's probably getting too sensitive for direct stimulation, so sucking on it is the best option for the grande finale. [9]
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Video: http://www.reddit.com/r/sex/comments/gs97m/cunnilingus_how_do_you_do_it/c1pyg5p
Book: "She Comes First" by Ian Kerner
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